No big reason for the long silence, just a season of being over-extended in a few areas and too drained at the end of the day to type anything meaningful. But I am coming to the end of the tunnel, so to speak, and have lots churning around inside my head. Whether it is meaningful remains to be seen.
Warning: most of it is about the house, so those who are not interested be warned.
Since we are officially into the 30 days before possession the paperwork has begun. We received a very long letter from our lawyer this week detailing all the decisions to be made. All were clear and straightforward, except one. Surveying the lot.
We were given four options and it seemed like he was encouraging us to have the lot officially surveyed including a building location. That was going to be a significant amount of money added to closing costs that we had not planned for. We understood previously that the original lot survey (5 years old) plus the fact that we can still see all the survey stakes and the lot lines have been kept cleared and walkable in between the stakes a new survey was unneeded.
Sidebar: we are somewhat compulsive planners and did lots of research. However, I sometimes forget one piece of data in the mountain of data that I hunt through to ensure that I have 'done my research'.
After a conversation in which both our anxiety levels may have been somewhat elevated we consulted our experts (parents) and the Interwebs. After reading several horror stories in which hapless home buyers discovered after making a purchase that a significant part of their land was not actually theirs, and the expensive methods of addressing said issue I was definitely in an elevated state of anxiety. A visit to city hall had me confused, as I was advised that with such a recent build they would have a site plan on file. They did not, or rather, would not share it with me. I was gently told my lawyer and realtor should be doing that.
So I called my realtor, who agreed that they were taking care of all that. He restated the comment from two weeks ago about the stakes and visible lot lines that I had forgotten in my data mining and put all my anxiety to rest.
Moral: when you have an expert working in your corner who you know is good at his/her job and they give you advice, don't go looking for trouble by mining a mountain of data. Check it out with one or two other trusted sources, then leave well enough alone!